This book is about love and communication. The first love, the child to his parents. Comes entirely

This book is about love and communication. The first love, the child to his parents. Comes entirely from the parent and teaches us that there is such emotion, love. Love between pergolas a man and after - the society around us and spouses. And communication between the parties in this equation results in love.
Little Petunia had lost her mother in the yard, in the dark. It is described in a complete isolation, abandonment and despair, "cried the little cat until I heard another voice of herself and thought: I must have died but my mother, who gave birth to me, can not keep me - the whole world who have been successful at it?"
And here came the cat and began to advise Attorney Patton how to please her mother abandoning my eyes could not love her as she should "not give up on love so soon." She is a consultant to be greater for love, so Petunia grew. What he really means is: be present. You want them to see you? "It is easy to love those who see him clear." Stand in front of your mother put you noticed, pergolas this is what the cat Patton consultant.
And petunia growing search for her mother. And her encounter with her mother engaged in a basic need like love - food. Her mother was happy to see her, "Oh, pergolas look who's here. Petunia back to us" and provides input response Patton grew up and performed - "Let's eat Petunia" and Csftonih pergolas eat her mother rejects her, her - that place attention and unconditional love for her Petunia had expected it receives Audit, the big cats who eat a lot. Review the children make it difficult for their mother that they had come to demand a lot of attention, that attention to input and one is in this story - Petunia want her mother to see her. Little cat again feel sad and invisible. And again for the second time counselor advises her cat - not to give up on love so soon. This time he tells her to make herself smaller. That is easy to love you when you're small.
And again encounter with the mother deals with the basic need of human beings - drinking. Petunia wins again maternal rejections she says, "It is so repulsive to drink with those who have no table manners." Little cat again feel disappears. Again counselor advises pergolas her cat - a cat this time you will be making sounds. There's a lot of ways, but back on the advice of his first - be present. Not demand attention. But with further include the time he offers her to try what the adults are doing and not just what children do to be seen - not enough to see you, you should also talk. There is an emphasis on communication pergolas and wisdom - not enough for you to be present, would appeal to adults. Do what they do. Talk.
But Petunia capable of doing this without pergolas doing so, she does not speak the words of adults, is a girl then she speaks the words of children. Again contact with her mother deeply touching another basic need -hfam at bedtime. "Oh Oh" said Htolaima "Usually I like to talk with the conversation but such talk down on me like rain from heaven?" Petunia therefore fails again gaining the attention of her mother. Again feeling disappears. pergolas
His last advice pergolas cat advises her to shut up. Or rather advise her to be angry. Erase her voice quiet and angry. Patton grew up anger all these rejections speaks her mother's quiet voice is much stronger than it erases the whole. It's not just her silent, her silence is silent polish. Her mother was happy to see her again and again deals with the need to contact their basic, underlying the need for this story - acceptance. Home. "Oh good, look who came back to us ... probably pergolas no better place in the house." But Petunia has been upset. And the anger of her mother without difficulty hearing sound "Usually I like those who do not erupt According to others," said Htolaima "but did not say anything like that and do you feel there's something wrong with you." And Petunia feeling pergolas disappears again.
This time is discouraged. She tried all the tools at its disposal and the disposal of every child - she acted extroverted (acting out) and infant behavior and she tried to act like adults and talk and communicate pergolas and she even tried to get angry. And all she got from her mother pergolas are needed for basic needs of its life - food, drink, sleep, shelter. But did not like that she wanted. Love, Nurit Zarchi writes here, not to eat or drink, or protection or other basic necessities. Love is something else entirely.
And Scngmrim pergolas her ideas - she cries. And cry and cry until it disappears. And here comes Htolama. pergolas And Htolama see Petunia pergolas although it now seems really an "oh oh" said Htolama "Anybody who wants to come out." And she licks it from the air, it returns a single moment of attention from all parental control so that lost and gone into full presence. "Here is my child" jumped Htolaima as refining "the little girl searched and searched. Lucky that licked the air my lost daughter, the sweetest cat in the world"
How many times a day this happens to the children? The answer is - all the time. Their subjective world and are at the center pergolas and in fact every time they need the same attention and parental love for whatever reason, large or small, nor are there now, and soon they lose their mother. You can not give a child a half listening ear, half attention, your love fills half when they need it now and in full. And children see the world in an all or nothing - if you're not going with me, now that I need you, you're not me at all. And I'm in the yard, alone in the dark and nobody can see me.
Parents, adults, living in a world far more complicated - they are busy, many require their attention. Tasks, routine, daily life and other children. They provide pergolas during this routine all the physical things that a child needs - food, drink, protection, shelter, home, borders, sleep, and more. But in terms of the child is not what he wanted now. And several times a day can a parent stop everything and give a child all the attention? All the love that he had for him, all the listening ear without reservation and without pergolas interruptions? <